5 Summer Closet Staples Over 40: What to Ditch & What to Keep
in Fashion on 25/06/2025
Now that I’m 51, I’ve gotten pretty good at knowing what deserves a spot in my closet—and what’s officially past its prime. Let’s face it, just because something worked in our 30s or even our 40s doesn’t mean it’s still doing us any favors now. In my latest video, I’m sharing 5 summer closet staples to ditch after 40—and don’t worry, I’m not leaving you hanging. I’ve got stylish, age-appropriate swaps that still feel modern, flattering, and totally wearable. So if you’re ready for a little summer wardrobe refresh, and you’re into summer fashion over 40, this is your sign to hit reset!
SHOP LOOK 1:
RIPPED OR TOO-SHORT DENIM SHORTS:
Let’s be honest—ultra-short or overly distressed denim shorts just aren’t doing us any favors anymore. That doesn’t mean shorts are off the table, though! I still wear denim shorts, but I’ve found that sizing up and choosing a clean, longer silhouette makes all the difference. These Agolde shorts are my go-to: high-waisted, no rips, and just the right length. Skip the Bermuda trend if it doesn’t suit you—style is about what works for you, not trends.
SHOP LOOK 2:
CHEAP FLIP-FLOPS (YES, EVEN TORY BURCH)
If you’re still hanging onto your old plastic flip-flops or dated logo sandals, it’s time to upgrade. Swap them out for sleek metallic slides or a low, walkable kitten heel in gold, champagne or silver—like this super affordable pair from Nordstrom! They instantly elevate any summer look and work just as well with dresses as they do with denim.
BUTTON DOWN (XS) // TANK (XS) // DENIM SHORTS (24) // SIM SLIDES // SIM HANDBAG
SHOP LOOK 3:
TANK TOP WITH SHORTS ( WORN ALONE):
This simple combo lacks balance, especially as we get older. Showing lots of skin both top and bottom can feel less than polished. So, if you’re wearing shorts, try styling them with a lightweight button-down, a blazer, or a vest instead. And if you do want to wear a sleeveless top, balance it out with full-length jeans or wide-leg trousers for that intentional, elevated look. This black button down has been a staple in my wardrobe for years – I wear an XS and it’s perfectly oversized!
BIKINI SET (XS) // COVER UP SKIRT (XS) // SLIDES // HAT// TOTE // SUNNIES
SHOP LOOK 4:
SKIMPY, LOW COVERAGE BIKINIS:
I’m still team bikini—but with a more refined, flattering fit. My favorite picks offer full coverage in the back, feel amazing on the skin, and come with coordinating cover-ups. I love styles with high-waisted bottoms, soft fabrics, and chic gold hardware. A matching maxi skirt cover up makes it even more vacation-ready. I’m wearing an XS in this incredibly affordable bikini & cover up set and it fits true to size.
SHOP LOOK 5:
BROWN TANK (XS) // JEANS (24) // SIM GOLD HEELS // HANDBAG
SMOCKED BABY-DOLL TOPS:
These tops have certainly had their moment – but in 2025? They feel a little too young and a lot too fussy. Instead, try a sleek ruched tank or a structured tee with interesting details. The chocolate brown top I styled in this look proves that solid colors and elevated fabrics are always in style. Bonus: it pairs beautifully with high-waisted jeans or a chic skirt for dinner or drinks! I wear an XS and I would stick with your regular size for the best fit.
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